Rules

Consent is Paramount.

Ask before you touch.

Check in if things aren't clear.

STRICTLY NO PHONES.

They must be left in lockers.

If you arrive together,
leave together.

Please keep the beds and equipment clean. Change the sheets if you soil them, wipe equipment down after use.

Please be mindful of others waiting to use the closed rooms and the equipment. Suggested maximum time limit on rooms is 1 hour.

Please watch out for each other. Call out unacceptable behaviour. If the first warning is unheeded, offenders will be asked to leave The Rabbit Hole and not be invited to return.

Don't touch other people’s belongings.

Please respect our neighbours and keep noise levels in check whenever you are outside: whether arriving, leaving, or smoking.

Consent

At The Rabbit Hole Adelaide, understanding consent is paramount. Consent is based on the FRIES model, which means it must always be:

FREELY GIVEN - without pressure, manipulation, or influence.

REVERSIBLE - anyone can change their mind at any time.

INFORMED - all parties must know exactly what they are agreeing to.

ENTHUSIASTIC - if it's not a YES, it's not consent.

SPECIFIC - saying yes to one thing doesn't mean yes to everything, or every time.

Here is a quick guide to help you enjoy your experience at the Rabbit Hole. They are mostly common sense, but we all know that sense is not all that common.

Be friendly and polite. Even if you aren’t interested in someone. It’s attractive. It's nice.
Be clean and hygienic. Shower before leaving home. Freshen up when you arrive.
Adhere to the dress code: sexy, classy, stylish, well-presented. First impressions count.
Limit your alcohol intake. It’s a great social lubricant, but too much just ruins the night for everyone, and indicates you can't control your behaviour.
Illegal drugs are not allowed.
Bring your own toys. They are personal things. Always ask before using them on anyone else. We have some toys you can borrow, just ask.
Bring your own condoms if you have a preference, especially if you require a non-standard size, or a specific type or brand. Always wear one with someone you are not fluid-bonded with. The sex-positive community places a strong emphasis on Safer Sex practice.
Talk with your partner about expectations and boundaries before attending. Then make sure you respect them. Go at the pace of the more hesitant partner.
Try to have no expectations of other people. It’s a surefire route to disappointment. They don’t owe you play, you don’t owe them play. If the connection you’re looking for isn’t mutual, politely move on.
Consent is Paramount. It bears repeating. Look for the enthusiastic "Yes"! Play is much more fun with someone who’s really into it.
Relax and have fun!